What are some good lesbian sex toys my sister could try? ok this is extremely awkward, but my sister(she's 19) has been gay now for two years and still hasn't told my parents and most of her friends, she only told me because i figured it out. She has been masturbating with her stuffed animals and pillows for a long time now and wants some real sex toys but will not get on here and ask for recommendations for herself. So please, any good sex toys out there? and i wouldn't mind any advice that i could give her so she can come public about it. |
Babeland.com has some nice ones. And it's recommended by Dan Savage of Savage Love.
She could order something from their online store. |
Lesbian sex toys creep me out? Seriously....plastic and silicone what the hell?
I don't mean to sound like a prude, I just think those would be extremely awkward. I read some lesbian book the other day. It kind of sounded like lesbian romantic relationships were defined by sex toys and I think that's way off.
So are there any other gays/lesbians that are against the use of these "toys" and prefer to go all natural? |
Of course nobody should be saying that lesbian sex should revolve around sex toys. But I get just as offended by people who say that all lesbians need toys as those who say that all lesbians should be toy-free.
For me, personally, both styles have their pluses and minuses. Toys thrill me- the idea of wearing a Feeldoe and feeling like it's an extension of me, of feeling each thrust in me as I penetrate her, the idea of getting on my knees to fellate a strap-on, of using any exciting number of vibrators or other toys to pleasure one another. I also thrill to the idea of toyless sex, where it's just wild, rampant hands and mouths and no having to fuss with anything extra.
Really, it's about what you like. And both are valid options. |
Sex toys & Lesbian Sex.? I'll be 18 in four months and am very interested in buying my first sex toy, preferably a bullet vibrator. Will I be of Legal age?
I'm a Lesbian. I am sexually active with only one person, my girlfriend of 2 months. I have male condoms (we're gonna make Dental Dams) that we will use but am wondering if there is any other kind of methods we can use for protection when doing Tribalism (scissor position). It's quite difficult to figure out what we can do to protect ourselves when all they teach at our school is protection for straight sex, not homosexual sex. |
| A strap on is very good and I have never met a girl who used condoms for lesbian sex |
Should I use toys for my lesbian sex date? Okay, so I am a lesbian, and I have a girlfriend. We live together and have been together for 2 years. We have had sex many times, and have never used toys!
Should I? And if so, what should I buy? |
| if it is somthing that you both want to try then go ahead,,just look online at the different toys and talk about it with your gf in what would be safe but yet pleasure,,just be careful who you buy from online or better yet go to a store that carries them,,it is ok to experiment as long as both parties agree on what and how it is going to be used. |
Lesbian sex toys help !!? Well, My girlfriend and me are trying to find an 8inch strap on that can only be used by a woman. Any one have any sites to suggest? please no rude comments. |
www.sextoyfun.com/category.php?a=topfap&cid=17
www.sextoyfun.com/category.php?a=topfap&cid=819
There is a large variety out there, here is some. |
Lesbian sex toys and sharing...? Iv got 2 strap-ons from my last relationship. im only a student and cant really afford to buy a new one. I bought them both with my last girlfriend but I paid for them so I kept them. I now have a new girlfriend and she has mentioned she would like to use one. Im not sure if its ok to use the same ones or should we really buy a new one? Iv cleaned them and everything its the moral side of things I want advice on. I really cant deside how I feel about it. One friend said to me that guys dont get a new dick everytime they get a new girlfriend, but i think this is different. oppinions please! xxx |
Well it would bother me, not because of the sanitary side but its somehow disrespectful to your new girlfriend, that objects been in the most intimate area of your last girlfriend.
I'm not a lesbian though I'm a gay guy so I don't know whether that amkes a difference but thats just my personal opinion, if your not sure I think you should just buy a new one and save your self a headache. |
Lesbian sex with toys... Virgin? Hey, I should know the answer to following question, but I was never told.. lack of sex ed :s.... n e ways, I'm lesbian and my gf and I wanted to try out a new toy that we got =) We had purchased a strap on and was keen on using it! I was a virgin while she was not.. now, since she used it on me, does that mean that I am no longer a virgin?.. If I'm not, I have no problem with that.. I couldn't have asked to lose it to n e body else.. she's the love of my life and hopefully my future wife =) |
Technically you are a virgin until your hymen is broken... and you would know about this if there is any bleeding during or after penetration (although sometimes there may not)...
But... having experienced sexual intercourse with your girlfriend (penetrating intercourse) its up to you if you consider yourself a virgin or not. Some people will argue that lesbians cant have sex but I disagree! ...and in the lesbian world your certainly not a virgin!!! |
Unsafe lesbian sex....And Sex toys? I am going out with my girlfriend just under a year now....and we are curious about the problems associated with unsafe sex? We are aware of the general problems, ie STDs but what else is associated with this?
We just bought a sex toy and wonder how safe it is to share etc.... |
Usually when you buy a toy the merchant will sell you some toy cleaner at the counter. If you didn't pick some up, it's wise to go back and buy some. The cleaner will help keep your toy from becoming a breeding ground for bacteria. Nobody likes bacteria getting into there intimate places.
Toys are made of various materials, and the industry doesn't actually have any health standards to follow. A scary reality some people don't know about! It's always better to be safe than sorry. Clean the toy after every use, and if you plan on using it on each other at the same time, you can wrap it in cling film if that makes you feel safe too.
Creating a hygienic habit of washing up after use and avoiding the transfer of bodily fluids can keep you safe from pretty much any nasties. |
What are the best lesbian sex positions? No toys...? My girlfriend and I are getting bored with our current sexual activities. What things can we do to spice it up without the use of toys? |
Do it i'n different places, the floor, the closet, car, beach.
My gf really liked the position where she sits between my legs and I finger her there. It made her feel safe cuz I'm like all around her. Or laying down in the spooning position and do it that way, she really liked that too.
You could eat her out with her sitting above you like on your face.
You could kiss her all over really slow and take things slow. Like lean i'n to kiss her really slow and keep your lips rt by hers but don't kiss her, and kind of brush your lips and then pull away slowly.:) that's fun, I liked doing that. You could play a game like wrestling and whoever is on top for 5 seconds and you have to kiss for 5 seconds to win. That's really fun!;)
If you have an iPhone they have a lesbian sex game.
You could tie her hands together like to the bed frame. That's fun for a little bit.
So ya hopefully I helped;) |
Sex toys with design quality in mind? so, my girlfriend and i (lesbians) have decided to branch out and try using a strap on. I have been looking for one that suits me but they all are so tacky looking! being a designer i really care about form as well as function. I like the the minimalism that JimmyJane uses in their toys but they do not have strap ons/harnesses for sell.
does anyone know where i can find lesbian sex toys with design quality? |
Fetish Fantasy has some really nice looking strap-ons.
There are also double strap-ons made specifically for 2 women, Here is an example of that:
Fetish Fantasy Double Delight Strap-On
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This sexy Fetish Fantasy Double Strap-On dildo is the perfect way to take control in bedroom delight. The elastic harness easily adjusts to fit most sizes, while the dong comfortably stays in place. You and your partner will love the thickness and life-like feel of dong and you'll love the results. Adjustable leg straps and elastic harness fits up to 46" waist. Length - 5.5 in. - ( 13.97 cm ) Width - 1.5 in. - ( 3.81 cm ) Girth - 5 in. - ( 12.7 cm ) |